The pair mentioned that having married would not improve their dwelling arrangement.
“Every time we get jointly, it’s like a 1st date,” Ms. Schneider explained. “When we are apart, there are more than enough cellphone calls and emails to present the emotional support we may well will need to get by a negative working day. If we lived in the similar town, my career, which I am pushed by, would have been a resource of conflict alternatively of celebration.”
When questioned why they made the decision to get married presented their snug existence, Ms. Schneider mentioned merely, “Marriage is a really pleased way to rejoice 20 a long time collectively.”
■ The working day right before their Jan. 28 wedding day ceremony in Jamaica, the couple, in the corporation of their dive master, Alton Williams, staged an underwater ceremony. On Feb. 2, Rabbi Danny Moss and Rabbi Susan Landau Moss are to direct a regular Jewish ceremony on the seaside in Hollywood, Fla.
■ Ms. Schneider graduated from the College of Texas at Austin. She is the daughter of Charlotte Schneider of St. Louis, and the late Irvin Schneider.
■ Mr. Moss graduated from Columbia and obtained a law diploma from the University of Chicago. He also received a master’s degree in Jewish heritage from the Jewish Theological Seminary in New York. He is a son of the late Barbara J. Moss and the late Henry S. Moss, who the two lived in Glenview, Ill.
■ The day after they achieved, Ms. Schneider, who was in Chicago, satisfied Mr. Moss for a initial day at what she assumed would be a restaurant there. Rather, Mr. Moss questioned her to go swimming with him at his health club. When she said she did not have a swimsuit, he purchased her gymnasium shorts and a sports bra, and off they went. (Mr. Moss is now the coach of a United States Masters Swimming club team in Chicago referred to as the Large Ridge Y.M.C.A. Bottlenosers, and Ms. Schneider is 1 his top rated swimmers. Sorry crew, they skipped a satisfy past 7 days to just take an additional kind of plunge.) VINCENT M. MALLOZZI